Frequently asked questions

Quick answers about using Sayit for hard conversations.

What is Sayit?
Sayit helps you prepare short messages for conversations that feel difficult — for example setting a boundary, ending something, making an ask, or replying when you’re hurt. You describe the situation and choose tones; you get a few drafts to edit and send in your own words.
Are these messages sent for me?
No. Sayit suggests text you can copy and use. You decide what to send, when, and to whom.
How do tones work?
You pick the overall tone you want (for example direct, gentle, or firm). Drafts aim to match that direction so you can compare angles and choose what fits.
Is my conversation private?
Treat anything you type as sensitive. Use the product in line with our terms and your own comfort level. For account-specific or legal questions, contact us via the Contact page.
Can Sayit replace a therapist or mediator?
No. Sayit is a writing helper, not professional advice. For abuse, safety, or serious conflict, reach out to appropriate professionals or services in your area.

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